If you finally decide to use an egg donor, it can be hard to find one.  I was placed on a hospital wait list for a year and a half before I was given an egg donor.  Instead you can find a donor from an agency.  On my radio show In Search of Fertility, I interviewed Nazca Fontes from the egg donor and surrogacy agency Conceive Abilities at conceiveabilites.com  She provides important information about how to find a donor.  When I was waiting for my egg donor, I was thrilled to discover that I could use an agency to find one right away.  After 5 IVF attempts with my own eggs, I wasn’t going to wait years because there was a long line at the hospital donor egg bank.